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The purpose of this assessment is to help you identify your dominate personality trait. We all want and need to be loved but loved is defined differently by each person. The four dimensions of love are Recognition, Acceptance, Security, and Significance. We need all four of these but because of our life experiences one will become our focus and will shape all of our decisions. Record the results in your profile. To gain more insight into your dominant personality trait or that of a friend or family member check out the Personality Profiles.
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Your dominate personality trait will be the area where you scored the highest percentage.
♠ Spades have a desire to be admired and appreciated. Recognition is their highest value in love. They are drawn to those who like them. They are usually very willing to give of themselves expecting little in return as long as they are appreciated or recognized for it. They can be wonderful friends, employees, and mates. Their weakness is that if someone fails to show their appreciation they loose all motivation. It is for this reason that spades are misunderstood as arrogant and know it alls. They also are great at rising to new challenges but they need someone behind them to cheer them on.
♣ Clubs want to be accepted just like they are. Acceptance is their highest value in love. They feel the most comfortable when they are with those that they share a lot in common. Clubs are loyal friends if you are in their circle. They are careful as to whom they let in. If you are in they enjoy spending lots of quality time with friends and are quite social. Their weakness is they can seem clickish. Meaning that they want to be in a certain group. Their desire to strengthen this group can feel that they are building walls to keep others out.
♥ Hearts are drawn to those in need. Significance is their highest value in love. They want to invest their time in the places and people where they will become irreplaceable. They delight in freeing others up to do something more important. They are great when working for a higher cause because they make no account for their time. They are willing to suffer for the greater good. Their weakness is that they do have a fear of being replaced.
♦ Diamonds are comfortable with any group of people regardless of their economic status. Their greatest need is security in love. They tend to always reach up to be with those they admire. This reaching can cause them to be great achievers. They don’t mind hard work but they are expecting a return in every relationship. They instantly know what you can do to help them get where they are going and they don’t mind asking. Their weakness is they can be thought of as users. They have a need for security that will make their survival skills impecable. They are keenly aware of their surroundings and can bring security to any group they are a part of.
To learn more about your dominant personality trait or that of a friend or family member, check out the Personality Profiles.
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Sometimes others think I am:
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I enjoy acquiring a new skill if:
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Which of the following makes you feel better?
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Which of the following do you inwardly fear the most?
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My best friends are really good at:
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My job is important to me because:
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What I like most about my job is:
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Some people criticize me for:
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I value this quality of my partner when in a romantic relationship:
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Solving a problem is easier if:
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Of the following, I most want my significant other to:
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When a new person enters my circle of friends, I usually:
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If you were making a purchase, which of the following would be the more compelling factor?
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I prefer to learn something new by:
Question 15 of 40
Which of the following are more motivating to you?
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Which of the following would you most like to avoid?
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Which of the following could cause you to lose sleep?
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I feel my childhood could have been better, if my parents would have known that:
Question 19 of 40
In school, my favorite teachers:
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The parent, guardian, or caregiver that I am closest to is:
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I have been accused of:
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I feel I could improve at:
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It is hard for me to resist:
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When I have a problem to solve I prefer to:
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I am most tempted to spend money if:
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I am a firm believer in setting aside money for:
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The best part of being in a relationship is:
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It hurts my feelings most if my significant other doesn’t:
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One thing I really like about my job or career is that it enables me to:
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At work nothing is more frustrating than:
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My worst neighbors were:
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I know I can count on my neighbors if:
Question 33 of 40
When deciding where to live, which of the following matters more?
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When interacting with others I am more likely to commit this social blunder:
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I sometimes spend more than I should on:
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Which of the following is more important?
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Which of the following people would you prefer to meet?
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Which would hurt you most?
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My neighbors are most likely to get my attention when they:
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When with company I usually: